Lent Day 38: Friends

Today brought me many random encounters with acquaintances that deepened our relationship. A woman from my workout group got a masters from Michigan and we shared stories from our time at school there. A friend from church talked to me for an hour or more about things closest to the heart - our children, our marriages, our purpose. My neighbor stopped by to chat and to plan times to hang out. My other neighbor stopped by with a gift for the new baby.

For so much of my life in this town I have felt isolated. I have poured myself into trying to develop new friendships and a sense of community making little progress. I finally gave up. Realizing that life was full of family and work, I let go of my desires for friendship to more fully devote myself to my current call.

I think it was an important step for me to let go. To recognize the seasons in life and to embrace a time of wilderness with my family. To be more supportive of my husband and to be available to my parents and brothers... I am convicted that this is my current ministry and life's work.

But even so, God does not mean for us to walk alone. Days like this remind me that there is a potential to connect and love anyone who crosses paths with us. And that we do not need to travel long roads together to afford ourselves moments of sharing the journey. And, if we can recognize those moments, we can be a light. Sharing God's grace with the world. And, other times, we can be fed and hear God's own voice speaking words of encouragement to carry on.